Fear not render as expected just started my first job as a tutor in computer courses and am afraid to not be able to attend properly people, to commit fallos, and generally not well hacer my work. The truth is that I’ve always been very inseguro. How could encourage me to myself? Carlos Logrono (Spain) Dear Carlos: for your letter seems that, because the initial stress of your new employment, you’ve stopped thinking in yourself and what you expect from that job, to obsess you for pure performance. It is big to exercise our work well, but it is no less true that we feel comfortable and not presionados is what ensures buena part of that exitoso performance and, above all, allows us to enjoy the same. If you lose yourself tratando unicamente satisfy the demands of the people, you’ll never be short of demands. First, because it is impossible to please everyone and, secondly, because it will always be something more that you think that you can hacer or offer.
The best way of We encourage you to yourself is feeling that you disfrutas your work, which is great for you, than each thing you do do it in the best possible way, but enjoying, as far as possible, of the tasks. Gives you permission to be wrong, to not know something from time to time. If you have sufficient humility as to say I don’t know, people will thank you and much more trust in you, generando addition, a genuine relationship with the public that acude to your courses. And gives you time, you just empezar in your new job, you have a way for delante to improve, to deploy new skills, to aprender and develop yourself. Not want to do this all at the perfeccion right now.
In summary, ilusionarte. The mejor antidote to your anxiety is to find the placer on what you are doing. As you do, you will desapareciendo your insecurity and you can concentrate on the positive.