Here, more importantly, even if you “super busy “, try to find at least two minutes and sing the praises of a loved one, to say that because they admire and want the evening to hear all the details once the fifty minimum. So, your hero come home, he was greeted and embraced, sat down to supper together or have to cook something delicious and above all, listen very carefully about his affairs. Do not ask: “Well ka tell me how you was your day!” Better to be soft and calm, and most importantly, get real enjoy any story of his hero. Maybe he wants to tell is not what you wanted to hear yourself, so be it says, try to understand her man and become interested in the topic. The deeper you will delve into all the nuances, even if sometimes professional terms, the more you will become very interesting and exciting, and a man, seeing your genuine interest and understanding, will have a stronger desire to share such details of which he does not tell anyone else. If you can gradually, little by little, without violating the trust and not overly pressing their demands, “tame” your character, then you can safely move on to the following items.
Once your partner has become interested in you, ie you have learned to listen to it and understand now you can gradually introduce him to the course and their own affairs. Here, at times, many women have basic error happens. Often they seemed to inspire her husband: “You’re not interested my business, you do not understand me.” Well, of course, he’s not interested and does not understand, not because he is “selfish and thinks only of himself.” All this from happening, that he absolutely did not understand anything in your life, your inner world of feelings and emotions in your profession, your passion for Bach and Mozart, in your lesson, painting and so on. Do not pick at it and do not try to induce his guilt, acting out the role of victim. Remember the main, the priority goal – happiness in family life and understand that it must consciously build gradually, but every day at least an hour. Learn how talk about themselves dosage.
If you feel that your man is not interested, then first ask yourself: “If I was not interested in him, perhaps he would have to meet me?” And then answer the second question: “Maybe he does not interested in this topic just because of – the fact that he knew nothing about it, while for men it is very vulnerable, because they want to be “heroes and all-knowing” in all areas of life. ” Start gradually, gradually telling something interesting narrative form, gently insert it into your world in my life. All it will take one month and not even one year, the entire process – for life. You do not stand still, and your man is also constantly growing, develops, learns something new. Here and learn how to interact with him, telling each other what you want. Learn to live your life, but be interesting to each other. Yours sincerely,